General Frequently Asked Questions
Still didn’t find an answer? Sheesh, what are you asking? Feel free to contact one of Cathy’s maids of honor. Admittedly, you could text Phil or Cathy but they may not answer depending on their remaining level of sanity as they approach the wedding days.
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Yes! We’re celebrating twice. The first wedding is a non-religious ceremony and reception on October 9, 2026, at a venue. Unfortunately, the guest list for this event will limited. The second wedding will be a religious ceremony on October 24, 2026. We can’t wait to celebrate with you!
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We appreciate you trying to spread the love and good vibes, but no. We have limits for the amount of people we can have on both days. Please check your RSVP card to confirm how many seats we’ve reserved for you and yours. Please do not bring any uninvited guests because they will be denied entry. We say that with love.
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There are quite a few reasons why we chose Connecticut to host both weddings. The most important reason is because Connecticut is a great location between where most of our families and friends are located.
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For the October 9, 2026 wedding, we are asking for formal wear. Think floor-length gowns, full suits, fancy shoes, the whole thing. We prefer no loud prints or patterns. See examples here. And don’t forget a coat or jacket to stay warm.
For the October 24, 2026 wedding, we prefer Indian formal clothes. Here are some examples. Please do not wear red, yellow, or white, as those colors are reserved for the bride, the mother of the bride, and the groom.
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As soon as possible would be great — we love mail! Please refer to your RSVP card for the deadline date.
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While we adore our nieces, nephews, and other young family members, we are unable to host kids at the October 9, 2026 wedding. This has been reflected on your RSVP card.